What to say ..... and how to say it briefly? I recently ended a long term relationship so I am feeling rather shell shocked. I am torn between wanting to be licentious and indulge every fantasy, and wondering if my white picket fence dream of a family with ren is still possible. Ah, the white picket fence dream .... I love ren. I wonder if fulfilling such a dream is still possible at my age. It would mean finding a woman younger than me - someone with a mother's love, a God honouring heart, a hedonist's sense of adventure and the patience of a saint. All that and not be a ! Does someone like that exist? Is this but the wildest of my fantasies? Such dreams are elusive. But that only makes me treasure friendships more. And that's what I am looking for here. I may be a hedonist but I like to treat people with respect. If we are not looking for love we can at least offer civility. So my fetishes include acting like a gentleman and reminding women that they are beautiful! I try to treat my lover with respect outside the bedroom so that she can trust me when I take charge in the bedroom and try to make her feel honoured and treasured! I like to do other fun things too. I like to take pictures and short videos, in a way that reveals my lover as beautiful but hides her identity. It’s great fun and it involves wigs, masks, boas, and an executioner’s hood. It is a silly, wonderful, and long story best told over coffee or during a dinner date. :-D There are other more provocative adventures that fascinate me, some that I have enjoyed (and want to enjoy again), and others that I wish to enjoy. They are the sort of thing that a gentleman doesn’t discuss, but age boys fantasize about them and poets sing about them! The one thing I know about such adventures is that they are best enjoyed by two rather than one. So what am I seeking? The white picket fence dream, I suppose. But what do I hope to find? Friends; cuddle buddies (‘friends with benefits’ and ‘f-ck buddies ‘are crass, inadequate descriptions for my taste). Ladies I can trust in friendship; couples who are unpretentious. All who are willing to let me be both a gentleman and a lover. What can I offer? I must honestly say I can’t offer the commitment required for a long term relationship. I am just too shell shocked right now. But I can offer respect; civility; recreational worship! Hours of kissing (I love to kiss!); hugs; a distain for tobacco, alcohol, and drugs. (Please! Be a non-smoker – I have allergies.) I can offer conversation where I listen more than I talk. I can offer the longest of hugs (and hopefully a minimum of snoring) as we fall asleep together, exhausted and overwhelmed by joy! What happens after that? Well .... that’s just part of the adventure, isn’t it?

Deel één van uw favoriete seksuele fantasieën. Houdt u niet in!:
Whatever the scenario I just like to be intensely in the
moment. My ultimate fantasy is to be with a lover I can trust
completely as we explore new things and have new adventures.

Welke seksuele activiteiten winden u op?:
Orale seks geven, Orale seks ontvangen, Trio's, Gelijktijdig masturberen, "Thuisfilmpjes" maken, Deelnemen aan erotische fotografie, Kissing/ Cuddling

Welke factoren zijn het belangrijkst wanneer u op zoek bent naar een seksuele partner?:
Bereidheid om openlijk alles te bespreken en te proberen, Maturity and a sense of adventure

Heeft u ooit gefantaseerd over seks met een beroemdheid? Wie? Wat vindt u opwindend aan hen?:
Hey - I AM a celebrity. :-)

Heeft u ooit cyberseks gehad?:
Absoluut niet. Ik wil alleen huid-op-huid seks.

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