Hi, my name is Nick. I'm an Officer in the U.S. Air Force and work as a general surgeon. One of the activities I enjoy most and that I find particularly arousing is giving a to a woman who appreciates receiving pleasure and is willing to share those special moments of ecstasy. For a long time now, I've been interested in the healing power of massage. Over the past several years, I've taken classes in diverse styles of theutic massage, including Shiatsu, Reiki, Hawaiian Lomi-Lomi, Californian deep tissue massage, etc., and I'm licensed to practice Swedish and Japanese theutic massage
About 6 years ago, during a trip to India, I came across a copy of the unabridged version of the Kama Sutra (which is infinitely superior to the bastardized copies sold here). What caught my eye was an entire chapter devoted to describing the Yoni massage. "Yoni" is a Sanskrit term that can be translated as "sacred temple", and is used to refer to the female genitalia. Combining what I have read in this ancient manual with what I have learned from my various massage classes, I'm able to give a massage that, according to all the women who have received it, is one of the most divinely pleasurable experiences they've ever had.
I start out with a no-nonsense full body massage to get the blood flowing, prime the muscles and relax my partner. I begin by asking my partner to lie on her back as I massage her shoulders, inside upper arms, forearms and hands. I then move along the upper back, then the lower back, the hips, sacrum, the buttock, inner and outer thighs, back of the knees and inner and outer calves. I then prop my partner's ankle on my leg so that I can massage her Achilles tendon and feet. I ask my partner to turn first on one side, then the other so that hard to get at areas of her shoulders, neck and head can receive attention. After that, I ask my partner to lie on her back so that I can further massage her head, neck, shoulders and face. I continue around her upper chest and then her front upper arms and forearms. I then pay special attention to each of my partner's hands, gently kneading her wrist, palms and individual fingers. I proceed to massage the abdomen in light, clockwise circles around the navel (women who experience menstrual cramps often find release during this). I then proceed to the anterior inner and outer thighs, around the kneecaps, shins and around the ankle bones. Again, the feet get special attention as the balls of her feet, arches, base of the toes and each toe is massaged. Throughout this I get frequent moans of (non-erotic) pleasure from my partners. They tell me that they experience a sense of glowing health and well being at this point.
With my partner's permission, I then begin the Yoni massage. Usually, my partner will lie on her back with a pillow under her head so that she can look down at her privates. I also place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. I ask her to spread her legs apart with her knees slightly bent (with pillows or cushions under her knees if she so desires) and her privates clearly exposed for the massage. I sit cross-legged between my partners legs and begin by caressing her legs, abdomen and thighs. Very gradually, I start focusing the massage in progressively smaller circles towards my partner's private area. If she likes, I pour a small quantity of high-quality oil on her mound. With the greatest respect, I gently massage the mound and outer lips of my partner's flower. Gently squeezing the outer lip between my thumb and index finger, I slide up and down the entire length of each lip. I do the same for the inner lips, making sure not to rush so that every part of her delicate blossom gets all the tender attention possible. I proceed to lovingly stroke my partner's clitoris in clockwise and counter-clockwise circles, encouraging her to relax and breathe deeply.
Slowly and with great care, I inert my middle finger of my right hand into her flower. Very gently, I explore and caress the inside of her temple with this finger. I take my time and lovingly feel up, down and sideways, varying the depth, speed and pressure. With my palm facing up, I move my middle finger in a "come here" gesture. My finger comes in contact with a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone and behind the clitoris, the Tantra (G-spot). Again, I vary the pressure, speed and pattern of movement, going back and forth, side to side and in circles with my middle finger. With my partner's permission, I insert my index finger into her vagina so as to provide increased stimulation, while my ring finger proceeds to caress her perineum. During this time, I use my thumb to stroke my partner's clitoris. If my partner feels comfortable with it, I gently insert my pinky into her anus, making sure to use sufficient lubrication. During the beginning of the massage, my LEFT hand is stroking and caressing my partner's face, breasts, thighs and abdomen, but as she gets more and more aroused I use my left thumb to make circles around the base of her clitoris while the rest of my hand is resting on and caressing her mound.
This dual stimulation of my right hand with its pinky in my partner's anus, my index and middle finger caressing her vagina, my ring finger teasing her perineum, and my thumb stroking her clitoris, while my left hand is massaging her outer mound and the base of her clitoris culminates in what is almost always a very intense orgasm. Women have told me that this climax was among the most powerful they've experienced. Quite often, more orgasms occur, each gaining in intensity. One woman on whom I had performed this massage on numerous times over a period of weeks told me she learned how to be multi-orgasmic. Another partner who had been sexually abused confided in me that my massage helped her heal. Other partners have told me that the massage helped them break through sexual blocks and trauma.
The main goal of the Yoni massage is to create a nurturing space for the woman to relax, enter a state of high arousal and experience unadulterated pleasure from her Yoni. I've been told orgasms arising from the massage are more expanded, intense and satisfying. I make it a point never to expect anything in return afterwards so that my partner can fully appreciate the massage and lie there and enjoy the afterglow. Other sexual activity may follow but it is entirely my partner's choice. I am always willing to try variations of the standard massage, like using my lips and tongue to further heighten my partner's pleasure. I am extremely open minded, have a very accommodating perality and I'm willing to try anything. I'd be happy to come to your place and pamper you with the full body , or you can come to my place, whichever you prefer. If my profile piques your interest, please write or wink me. I will be looking forward to hearing from you.
Mijn Ideale Persoon: My goal is to develop a greater appreciation of women, gain an increased understanding of feminine sexuality and form a nurturing bond with my partner during physical intimacy. Race, age, height or body-type are of no concern to me. What is important from my perspective is a willingness to let go of inhibitions so that both of us can embrace the full erotic potential of the female body.
