We are looking for uncomplicated long-term situations with select people. We would like to build a deep, mutually rewarding sexual relationship over time with a person, couple, or even a group, who can hold a conversation as well as hold their own in bed ( in a manner of speaking :) ). This part is really important: If you're not comfortable with the husband possibly being in the same room watching, or filming (discrete with no faces shown if necessary) and maybe helping or joining in depending on the vibe, and think you might have performance issues in such a situation then we are not for you, as we both very much enjoy this potential scenario. We are a very secure, happily married couple who have tried a few fun threesomes, and a foursome, and would like to experiment further with singles or couples. Ideally she would like to have some fun alone with a man - or a group of men - but would also consider playing with a couple. He is open to playing with a couple. She is particularly drawn to men who are masculine and dominant, without being macho and aggressive, for solo meetings. She would also like the experience of being the centre of attention with a group of men, however, as with meeting singles, she needs to feel comfortable with you for this to truly work. Our biggest shared fantasy is for the husband to lead her blindfolded into a room where an anonymous group of men (at least anonymous to her) are eagerly waiting to make her the centre of attention. She is often shy to begin with but if you are charming and funny and you press all the right buttons you'll discover a lovely woman who enjoys being a bad girl. Her biggest fantasy is to meet a guy at a hotel bar, flirt and drink, and then to go up to his room. She's thrilled by the idea of anonymity and pick-up, although it is important that this scenario is sophisticated and not sleazy. We live in Germany but if we have flirted, or hotlisted you then we are most likely in your area, or will be soon, and interested in meeting.

Mijn Ideale Persoon: We have a successful and loving, if somewhat unconventional, marriage. The female likes to play alone with men from time to time and the male encourages this, but only if the other man is comfortable with - and in fact enjoys - filming any fun that happens. Ideally you are not "performance" shy at all and would also welcome the husband watching and perhaps filming discreetly in person. Our relationship is much more important to us than any extra-marital shenanigans and you must respect the fact that although she prefers dominant men in the bedroom, it is possible to be a strong and dominant gentleman without being abusive and disrespectful. Even though the husband enjoys sharing the wife with other men he isn't a cuckold, has high self-esteem and humiliation does nothing for him - this is about enjoying the wife's pleasure. Respect both of us equally, don't feel it's ok to cut the husband out of the equation and we'll all have a lot of fun.

The wife would very much like to experience being the centre of attention with a group of men. She doesn't have a specific number in mind, but imagines anywhere between three and more than three If anyone reads this and feels they could help make her fantasy a reality, and more importantly a fun first group experience, then we'd love to hear from you.

Deel één van uw favoriete seksuele fantasieën. Houdt u niet in!:
Being led blindfolded into a room full of men, to be touched,
kissed and caressed by so many hands and mouths, then fucked
by all of them multiple times.

Over welke locatie voor een seksuele ontmoeting fantaseert u?:
Een bed, Het strand, Midden in een park, Een vliegtuig, Een donker steegje, Een verlaten plek in de wildernis, Mijn bureau op mijn werk, Een zwembad of bubbelbad, Een pashokje in een winkel, Een lift, Een hotelkamer

Welke seksuele activiteiten winden u op?:
Orale seks geven

Welke factoren zijn het belangrijkst wanneer u op zoek bent naar een seksuele partner?:
Seksuele ervaring

Heeft u ooit cyberseks gehad?:
Absoluut niet. Ik wil alleen huid-op-huid seks.

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