I'm not really using this site any more, but since someone viewed my profile recently, I figured I oughta update it.
I'm Jesse. I'm currently 40 (May 2016), cis male, or maybe slightly genderfluid (though it's more my body concept, rather than my gender identity, that's fluid), on permanent disability, a musician and photographer. I'm heteroromantic (or polygynoromantic) pansexual, meaning romantically, I'm attracted to cis women, trans women, femme genderqueer, agender, and predominantly femme genderfluid people, while sexually, I'm attracted to cute, beautiful, and sexy people regardless of gender or parts. However, I'm very rarely attracted to masculine people, and really only attracted to 4 very specific types of men. In descending order of preference:
Type 1: Guys who look like cute girls.
Type 2: Cute young muscular black guys with a shaved head and body.
Type 3: Cute young slender east or southeast Asian guys (mostly Chinese and Vietnamese).
Type 4: Cute young slender black guys.
Of course, I'm also not attracted to every guy who is one of my types. If I am attracted to a guy, I don't care whether he's cis, trans, or intersex, but so far I've only found 2 trans men I'm attracted to (Tiq Milan and Kortney Ziegler; google image search should be enlightening, and is highly recommended).
I crave variety in my sexual partners, in terms of gender, genitals, shape, size, and ethnicity, but I want long-term committed relationships with all my partners, so I strongly prefer polyamory. However, although I'm very into sharing my partners with each other, I'm not into sharing my partners with other people. So I'm not into open relationships, only closed group. I have no interest in casual sex or hookups. There are a few select people I might be interested in an FWB situation with, but generally it's not what I'm looking for.
I have a very high sex drive, but because of my disability, I don't have much energy. So I'm into lots of cuddling and intimacy, rather than wild sex.
Because of my disability, I don't get out much, can't enjoy the outdoors like I used to, and meeting people is really hard. So mainly I'm into hanging out at home, playing video games, listening to or making music, and occasionally doing some photography.
I'm into electronic music, mainly house, techno, hard trance, psytrance, oldskool jungle, and hardcore, but not dubstep, edm, or other currently popular mainstream styles. As far as food goes, I like Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, Thai, and Malaysian food, as well as jjamppong and butter-fried perogies, and Irish, English, and Belgian beer. I like samurai movies, kung fu movies, and anime.
As far as video games go, I mostly play RPGs and shooters. I'm currently playing the Witcher series (finished the Hearts of Stone expansion last night, waiting to download Blood and Wine when the server load drops a bit).
I'm a trans and intersex rights activist, but very low-key, and pretty much just online activism. Have been for about 15 years. So I absolutely can't date anyone who is in anyway transphobic, especially a TERF or TERF token, or medicalist or whatever. I'm connected with lots of other activists and pretty current on issues and terminology, but I'm not perfect and there's a pretty good chance I'll screw up occasionally, and probably be unaware of it. Also, I'm very open about the fact that Parinya Jaroenphol, Janet Mock, Geena Rocero, Laverne Cox, Honey Dijon, and Kevin Balot are all among my major crushes, and there are several other high-profile activists I :X , though they're not major crushes.
Mijn Ideale Persoon: I'm looking for cute people, mainly girls, with a sweet personality. I'm not too picky about body type/shape/size; I have preferences, but I'm attracted to some women of every type. I do prefer short girls, and tend to be most physically attracted to Asian women, followed by black women. I find penises much more attractive than neovaginas, so that is a preference, but what parts a person has doesn't really have any effect on my interest in either dating them or sleeping with them. Basically I'm looking for like-minded people, who are interested in the same type of relationship I am, and whom I'm attracted to. I hope to also find people with whom I share common interests, tastes, and values, as indicated above.
I'm also interested in couples, especially those who want kids but need a sperm donor. But I'm only interested in couples where I'm attracted to and involved with both/all members of the couple.
Deel één van uw favoriete seksuele fantasieën. Houdt u niet in!:
Being re-incarnated as myself but in a girl's body,
with a full memory of my past life, and getting to experience
life as a cock-loving, transwoman-loving lesbian.
Welke seksuele activiteiten winden u op?:
Orale seks geven, Orale seks ontvangen, Anale seks, Speeltjes (Vibrators/Dildo's/enz.), Urolagnie (Watersport/Urine), Rimmen, Trio's, Gelijktijdig masturberen, Massage
Welke factoren zijn het belangrijkst wanneer u op zoek bent naar een seksuele partner?:
Fysieke aantrekkingskracht, Openstaan voor een trio en/of orgie, Libido, emotional attraction
Heeft u ooit gefantaseerd over seks met een beroemdheid? Wie? Wat vindt u opwindend aan hen?:
Nong Toom, the 1998 Thai national kickboxing champion.
She's one of my top 4 crushes (number 1 is a 4-way tie).
I'm attracted to her because she's beautiful,
sexy, sweet and charming, physically and mentally strong,
and passionate about doing something to help others. I
greatly admire and respect her, but I also have strong romantic
feelings for her, and want to spend time with her and make
love to her. The fantasy is not really about the sex, it's
about being in a relationship with her.
Heeft u ooit cyberseks gehad?:
Ik heb het geprobeerd, maar het is gewoon niet hetzelfde.