I had three categories for my woman which I called 1. Lust, 2. Like, 3. Love. With these three categories I had a rule for each so simple that it cant have been very philosophical but that categorized my woman well. 1.LUST: Lust was when I was horney I really wanted this girl to come around to my house but as soon as we had sex or if I masturbated before she arrived then I would think shit I wish she wasn’t here or think oh I don’t want her coming around anymore. Girls in this category I had to be careful of as in certain frames of mind I might be silly enough to give them a call. They are the perfect girl for practising your E dating with but don’t have them hanging around at your house. 2.LIKE: Like was the girls who were actually pretty cool and when I was horney I would get them around and once we had sex or if I masturbated before they arrived then I wouldn’t really mind if they hung around after cause they were nice enough company. 3.LOVE: Love I didn’t really get much of but they were the girls who I always wanted around regardless of sex and when they weren’t at my house I would think wonder where they are and want to be there. Even after ejaculating I would wonder about them. Of course as years went by and now that I have a long term girl friend my idea of love has become a lot more complicated but I still see those three categories as a simple method of deciding how I felt about a girl. The big test I used was to straight after masturbating think could I still be bothered having them around here.