m decent educated single man, working in a good reputed company. I like long ride, adventure outing, late night party and to be extremely kinky... Looking for decent woman for activity , outing, clubbing etc... Like to experience threesome with decent open minded couple...

Mijn Ideale Persoon: Looking for the things you enjoy because of the guilt and shame you feel about them and, as anyone with strong needs and desires will tell you, why am I telling you all this? Well I'm a man who has similar needs and desires, but from the opposite end of the spectrum. I don't know why I have such needs, I've had a perfectly happy, stable life. As a result I'm normal, outgoing, pretty chilled out and liked to enjoy life.

As such I'd like a relationship with someone who shares these needs and wants to feel free to enjoy them instead of feeling bad about them. Someone who wants to feel safe, cared for, appreciated and valued for who you are and not judged. In short, someone nice, normal, good fun and easy to get on with, who just wants a relationship where you can be free to enjoy and explore who you are with someone who can appreciate that, who knows how to take control, and can help you, guide you and enjoy it with you too.

Maybe there are reasons why you feel that way and need it so much, but do you want to spend the rest of your life , crying yourself to sleep, wondering why you have such desires and whether you can change them? Or would you prefer to simply be able to enjoy them as fully as possible, without the slightest feeling of guilt?

Why not attack the guilt and shame instead of the thoughts or actions? Why not teach you that your feelings and desires are in fact perfectly ok, and that as long as no harm comes to you and you cause no harm to others, then have at it and enjoy yourself and feel good about it.
Naturally, the fact that you enjoy them, or think you would, and others consider them weird, makes you feel guilty, embarrassed and ashamed at your own desires, which then starts to eat away at your confidence, self esteem and self worth.

I can make things between us as more and more reliable and can maintain more secrecy . I was well brought up and well educated in a happy family environment. Perhaps it's why I'm confident.
Well I hope you can find me as your cool hunt and keep up the faith in your desires where you can feel more safe.