33 year-old man, a few months out of a relationship and looking to try some different people and experiences. I'm fairly healed up, wanting to move forward and would love to meet people who can be open-minded, tolerant and supportive of me and can deal with the fact I may need to pull back here and there from time-to-time to deal with my feelings as I go through this process. About me- 5'8", lost a lot of weight recently so I consider myself to be of average build, open-minded, sensitive, respectful, emotionally and sexually literate, giver, but also assertive and aggressive when it feels right. Well endowed, but not massive, about 7-8" hard, slender with big mushroom head. I'm a musician and economist by trade, and pursuing a Ph.D shortly. I have a ton of interests and am one of those nurturing types that love to fulfill to my lovers needs and desires. When, I can't I'm there to support them while they search for ways to do that (and let's face it, no single person can meet all of our needs all the time). About you- single, couple together or playing with consent of partner (better yet bring him/her along if you have one), safe/sane/fun to be around, STD free, and most importantly WILLING TO TAKE THINGS ONE NIGHT at a time. If you are into kink of any sort/a night owl/ long haired guys/hard rock-industrial-punk you get bonus points! I'm open minded about ethnicity/body size/your personal situation, so please don't hesitate to respond. If I sound like I'm of interest to you, please e-mail the link above and be prepared to send pictures of you if you don’t have them posted online. Remember the more you write about you or what you are looking for in your e-mail the better I can respond. If you are here because you are viewing my webcam, please check my blog for details about what you are seeing.

Mijn Ideale Persoon: You don't need to meet my ideal to contact me, or pick up a friendship, e-mail contact, play date or even a relationship. But I've been asked, so here it is:

The absolute minimum boundary for me is that you have to be honest with me and as honest with yourself as you can be about who you are. I respond best to people who can be real with me, let me know where their limits are, what their needs are, and can give me a fair chance to deal with my feelings with them no how badly it hurts or how good it feels. The other personality traits that I consider extremely important to me in a long term lover: sensitivity; comfort with your body, sex, and sexuality; good communication skills; creativity and intelligence; openness to kink; independence and finally desire to be affectionate (I love touching, cuddling and physical closeness, I do need a lot of that right now especially). Bonus points given to night owls, music lovers, partners into making/watching adult videos, swingers, polyamory, women who wear skirts, nylons or at the least have a cute pair of feet! You MUST be SAFE AND FUN to be around.

Things I cannot tolerate-

Liars, people who have difficulty managing or discussing their jelousy, sadness and other feelings effectively, controlling people, obsessive/compulsive disorder types (if you stalk, don't apply.) Also not in the market for those with current STD's/hard drug users (read coke, meth, heroin, etc).

I am very open and available to all sorts of sexual experiences, from one night stands, sexy friendships all the way up to long term relationships. Couples and single women very welcome. Single men welcome to reply, although I am pickier with the guys...it helps me to feel safer if you are older, have good experience with men, can be patient with me and are not closeted (I'm not ashamed of being bi-sexual, I just don't have as much experience as I would like with men).

FYI for couples...I am bi-sexual, but respect his comfort level during play. You never have to do anything with me you don't want or don't feel safe doing. I don't just respect her when she says "no" or needs a break to consider her feelings, I respect his as well, for whatever reasons he has. Just sharing in the experience of being with her together is always fine and I always view my role as the new person in the situation to fulfill your needs and fantasies whatever they are, mild to wild.

Lastly, take a really close look at my profile and changes I make over time. If you are interested in fulfilling any of my fantasies, you go to the top of the list. ANYTHING ON THIS PROFILE IS FAIR GAME!

Wat zijn uw favoriete muzikanten of bands?:
NIN, Perfect Circle, Tool, Megadeth, Metallica, Slayer,
Skinny Puppy, Queensryche

Over welke locatie voor een seksuele ontmoeting fantaseert u?:
Een bed, Het strand, Midden in een park, Een vliegtuig, Een donker steegje, Een bioscoop, Een verlaten plek in de wildernis, Onder een waterval, Een zwembad of bubbelbad, Een hotelkamer, Waar dan ook

Welke seksuele activiteiten winden u op?:
Orale seks geven, Orale seks ontvangen, Anale seks, Fetisjen, Lichte bondage, Harde bondage, Kaarsvet, Billenkoek, Rollenspelen, Trio's, Slaaf/Meester, Gelijktijdig masturberen, "Thuisfilmpjes" maken, Deelnemen aan erotische fotografie, Voyeurisme, Handboeien/schakels, Borst- en tepelmarteling, klemmen, enz., Blinddoeken, Massage

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Ik heb het geprobeerd, maar het is gewoon niet hetzelfde.

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